But (Not) Always as Friends: A Reflection on Nigeria's Colonial Past and Its Relevance to Today As Nigerians, we often hear the phrase 'friendship' used to describe the relationship between our country and its former colonial masters. However, the truth about our colonial past is far more complex and nuanced. Sir Bryan Sharwood Smith, a renowned British colonial officer who served in Northern Nigeria from 1921 to 1957, captured this dichotomy in his memoir, 'But Always as Friends: Northern Nigeria and the Cameroons (1921–1957)'. The title of Smith's memoir is an adaptation of a speech by Sir Abubakar Tafawa Balewa, our country's first Prime Minister, who described the British as being regarded by Nigerians as "first as masters, then as leaders, finally as partners, but always as friends." However, this narrative is tainted by the exploitative policies of the British colonialists, who employed a divide and conquer approach that still has a lasting impact on our nation today. Fast-forward to our time, President Bola Tinubu's recent state visit to the UK is a significant moment in our country's history. The visit, which took place 37 years after General Ibrahim Babangida's last state visit, is a reminder of the importance of strengthening our relationship with the British government and people. The opulence and grandeur of the royal pomp and pageantry witnessed during the visit are a testament to the enduring legacy of our colonial past. However, beyond the pomp and circumstance, the visit also presents an opportunity for us to re-examine our relationship with the UK and to re-evaluate the legacy of our colonial past. As President Tinubu and his wife, Oluremi, engage with their British counterparts, we must ask ourselves if the 'friendship' that Balewa spoke of is truly genuine. Mrs. Tinubu's itinerary, which includes a church service and a reception at Lambeth Palace, highlights the significant role that Christianity played in our colonial past. As Nigerians, we must acknowledge the impact of colonialism on our religious landscape and the ongoing influence of Christianity in our society. Ultimately, the visit of President Tinubu to the UK is a reminder that our colonial past continues to shape our present and will likely influence our future. As we navigate this complex history, we must strive to be honest about our experiences and to work towards a more equitable and mutually beneficial relationship with our former colonial masters.