Title: Being the First Daughter: More Than Just a Badge of Honour For many Nigerians, the term 'first daughter' often carries a sense of pride and respect. It's a label associated with responsibility, dependability, and a strong sense of duty. However, two Nigerian women, Amanda Iheme, a clinical psychologist, and Chigozie Obi, a multidimensional artist, shared a different story when they spoke about their experiences growing up as the firstborn girls. According to Chigozie, being the first daughter is a lonely and complicated experience. It starts with an unfair amount of responsibility, where the weight of the family's expectations rests squarely on her shoulders. This is often accompanied by an invisible workload, which Amanda referred to as "unpaid emotional labour." As the first daughter, she's the go-to person for everyone's emotional needs, but when she reaches out for support, it often doesn't come in the same way. Amanda's experience of being the only girl among three brothers highlights the struggles of being a first daughter. Her mother, while well-meaning, couldn't fully understand her daughter's perspective as a young woman navigating a rapidly changing world. This lack of understanding and support can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness. The "strong first daughter" label can be both empowering and suffocating. On one hand, it can give women a sense of confidence and self-assurance. However, it can also create unrealistic expectations and perpetuate the notion that women are responsible for carrying the weight of the family on their shoulders. In Nigeria, where traditional roles and expectations can be rigid, the experience of being a first daughter can be particularly challenging. Women are often expected to be caregivers, problem-solvers, and emotional support systems, without being given the same level of support and understanding. It's essential to recognize the complexity of this experience and to create spaces where first daughters can share their stories and find support. Ultimately, being a first daughter is more than just a badge of honour. It's a complex and multifaceted experience that requires empathy, understanding, and support. By listening to the stories of women like Amanda and Chigozie, we can work towards creating a more inclusive and supportive society for all.