Valentine's Day Drama: When Love Turns to Fisticuffs at Lafia Mall It's that time of the year again when love is in the air, and the world is filled with affectionate gestures. But for two men who clashed at Lafia City Mall in Nasarawa, the day turned out to be anything but romantic. Caught on camera, the duo engaged in a heated fight, allegedly over a woman. The incident occurred on February 14, 2026, a day that's meant to be filled with love and affection. The video of the fight has taken social media by storm, with many Nigerians expressing their disgust and disappointment at the men's behavior. In this day and age, it's hard to fathom why two grown men would resort to physical violence over a woman. The incident has sparked a heated debate, with many questioning the men's maturity and sense of responsibility. But not everyone is quick to judge the men. Some people believe that the lady in question may have played a role in escalating the situation. Perhaps she led them on, creating hope in one and jealousy in the other. Whatever the case may be, it's clear that the incident highlights a deeper issue - the way we, as a society, approach relationships and love. In Nigeria, our cultural narrative often reinforces the idea that a man must "win" a woman's heart, or else risk losing her to another suitor. This can lead to a competitive and often toxic environment, where men feel pressured to prove themselves to win a woman's affection. The Lafia mall incident serves as a stark reminder that this narrative can have serious consequences, including violence and emotional distress. As we reflect on the incident, we must ask ourselves if there's a better way to approach love and relationships. Can we create a society where men and women can express their emotions and desires without resorting to violence? Perhaps it's time for us to rethink our cultural narrative and promote a more healthy and respectful approach to love.